With the trend of love marriages fast catching up in India, the importance of seeking approval from your elders has also cropped up. The influence of the Western ways like a man going over to his girl friend family for a dinner to meet her parents has found much impression on the psyche of the current youngsters of Indian generation who have reached marriageable ages and plans to settle down.
There are several approaches or diplomatic means of introducing your man in the most dignified manner. Firstly, you need to realize and be certain that the man you are going to introduce is the true and right one. In addition you must have faith in yourself about your choice, and trust your parents. It is very important that you do not give shock to all by declaring he is the one. Rather, the logic is to ease him in your family life and let them know about the person he is. It will help your parents especially your mother to form a nice view of your future fiancé. You need not to be scared of the reaction of your family members over such actions. The idea of letting your parents know about your plan to live with your man for the rest of your life is very important news. In fact, sooner you do it, the better it is.
Then, there is the simple and refreshing way of just asking your mother about a man you want her to meet and that when could you call him up so that she can meet him. Your gesture will surely tell your mother about your long time intention and how much you want their positive favour. This will in turn reach your father and will probably calm his nerves that may be otherwise.
Ways are many, one of which is to simply tell your mother you are going out for a movie and a date. This will surely sent the message loud and clear.
Introducing your man and getting your parents warm approval and blessings is the last hurdle before you to spend your whole life with him, so have faith and confidence in all the parties concerned.